Should He Be Ashamed

It really depends on who you ask. Let me say off the top, my disapproval of the book is not rooted in jealousy or wishing I had thought of it first. Because, as a matter of fact I did. In a much less graphic way I might add and that was said to be to raw. I addressed the scripture some time ago minus the racy descriptions. Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. Go to the link and see what I said in 2005. http://indepcons2.blogspot.com/2005/12/is-oral-sex-sin.html Bringing up this subject could be considered offensive depending on the listener. A woman with the wrong spirit might consider it as being fresh. Some women think everyone is trying to hit on them. A man whose not subjected to the word himself or not your buddy might just consider it out of line.

I think Dr. Spencer crossed the line this time with the writing of this book. I don't doubt he had parishioners with itching ears willing to embrace whatever he says, but as a minister he should have kept it holy. He is held to a higher standard than the average person. Look how many people are talking about this book. Spiritual conversation shouldn't be the same as talk around the watercooler at work or backroom talk with the boys. It appears the book is reaching far more than the married couples at his church it was supposedly written for in the first place. Considering how things have turned out. Should he be ashamed?