Really Want To Know

A picture is worth a thousand words, and this one says it all. What some call fat, others call fine. I see some sexy sistas in this picture. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I personally like a woman who can cook and eat a good meal. If it gives her a nice booty in the process, all the better. Blacks in general have been questioned in the last two weeks by as many black female journalist about their own hidden insecurities. Every black woman who doesn't have big legs and hips herself has asked this questions. . " As dedicated, educated and successful as I am, you still want that. What is it"? Knowing all the time what it really stems from.

Disguise it as a health concern as you did last  week, or blame it for young men's lack of  gentleness in the way they handle women during sex.  Both these observations are coming from women who don't have these issues. The question then becomes. How do they know? These ladies in question are in the malls every weekend buying form fitting clothes. Keeping appointments at  the nail and beauty shops and  buying weave and not prescriptions. The only medicine they're taking is Petrone. I also doubt they're calling women with ironing board backs and bird legs for tips on controlling men. They're trying to be like the girls in the videos.

To completely understand what these  women really want to know would require a honest conversation  with men. One you aren't likely going to  get from men. Why do they feel pressured  to act and perform a certain way for certain kind of women? It is not the nature of men to discuss their insecurities concerning other men. Especially in the area of their sexual prowess. When you have women like the rapper "Trina" placing such high expectations on men (11 in.).  If  enough men are willing to be measured by that standard. We have the same type pressures placed on us too. Since some things are beyond their control. Do  they really want to know?