You Don't See

We  spend so much time talking about discrimination against gays, but we fail to mention how they discriminate against each other. Not the race factor, but that exists also. I'm talking about how they are judged based on how they look. You never see the homosexuals that look like models, or those who you never suspected . It's always some Perez Hilton looking guy, or some girl named Paula who looks like a Paul. Where are the George Michaels and Angelina Jolies? People don't overlook them. They look upon them as a disgust and a waste.  No one really cares if Rosie O'Donnell has a wife or Elton John marries a man.

The most hated group is men on the down low. Not because of their spreading of disease, as people often claim.  But  due to resentment and jealousy. Men and women both hate them. Women resent the fact that a man is beating their time.  They can't believe a man would want another man over them. As far as black women are concerned, they are just like white women. Another competitor in the race. Generally men don't like what women don't like. Other than that. That's reason enough. This is just another on the long list  of stereotypes black men have to overcome.  Now they're always watching how you hold your hand and how you cross your legs. The first time you don' t react  the way they want. You must be gay, because you're not after them.

Good looking lesbians get a pass. Men somehow think  two  women having sex is hot. because they feel like participants. The secret is, "they continue having sex even when men aren't around The threesome turns into a twosome and you aren't invited. What if Gloria and Draya on the "Basketball Wives L.A." sleep together and Gloria goes  back to Matt and the twins? That's the same thing. If she dabbles in homosexuality. She can go right back and get a man with no problem. But if a man is known to be sleeping with other men. No woman openly wants them. It's a double standard.

Now that transgender has been added to the equation. If you didn't grow up with someone. Or maybe see their baby pictures. They migh not be  what you think.  You might  end up getting a surprise  like Chingy did  with Sidney Starr. Frank Ocean obviously isn't the first man in hip hop to be attracted to other man. Even though they probably know.  She's giving the video vixens a rum for their money. Chingy could have arguably chose from hundreds of girls. But  he chose Sidney. She has been pictured with Ludaceis, Omarion  and Twista to name a few . In addition to being transgender.  Sydney Srarr can dance.. As far as the big legs and broad shoulders. As long as she has a flat stomach and a big booty. They pass the test. Men are attracted to big muscular women anyway. Look at Serena Williams.   She is bigger than a lot of men.  

I know  this is more information than some people need. It's just that you never hear about all that are included in the LGBT community. It's more than just  some odd ball couple who just want to live together in peace. What happens when Dejuanna Johnson wants to be a police?  Or Chaz Bono wants to work at Jail East. You don't have to worry about those you see at the rallies. It's the ones you don't see.