The One

These guys all have long standing relationships with women taking full advantage of their money and status. MiMi Faust claims she doesn't need Stevie J. or his money. Yet she has been hanging around in the cut patiently for fifteen years. While he dates and gets engaged to other women. She waited a long time before she finally had a baby. But the truth be known, time was running out. She was almost forty before she got pregnant.  She did that to keep him around,

Kimbella started early with Juelz Santana. I  think she went all in for him. She has had two sons for him so far. That's a lot of baggage. Since they all have been in live-in relationships for years already. Why don't they just get married and make it official? It's more than just the normal jitters. These guys are just stringing these ladies along. All these women have what's called a history. They were all once out there with other players.

The last thing these women need is for their past to come to light. Then the men start thinking about who had their women first. "I paid too much for this. I need to reevaluate".  That's the hold-up for Jim Jones. Crissy is talking about freezing her eggs. She is already forty-two years old. Is she going to wait until she's fifty? I also think she might finally be reading the writing on the wall. Jim Jones is getting  tired of  waiting. So all of a sudden it's not about him anymore. She needs some space, according to her. Mama Jones isn't letting up either. She wants a grand baby.

Matt Barnes and Gloria Govan are another helpless case. They've been engaged since she had twins. She has played herself more than once. Rappers are using her to make her man look bad. Men fighting over you doesn't make you a prize. Who ever wins will resent you in the end. Her and her sister are both messy. They crap in the water where they swim.  She wants  to solidify her position, by making him jealous. That's not working out to well. She still hasn't got a ring. What guarantees one now? After she took suggestive pictures. Matt might be having second thoughts.

Jim Jones and Juelz Santana really want a girl they can take home to their mothers. Even though they want a hot girl to fool around with. They want a good girl to be their wife. When and if they ever do decide to settle down. It probably won't be with the women they have now. Kimbella has been with other rappers. Crissy likes the dope boys.

Stevie J. is a rolling stone. He has a way with women. That most men don't. He is always looking for his next conquest. He doesn't go after them. They come to him. Even though they know he's no good.  They try him anyway. That's what causes the problem. Then they want somebody to treat them like a queen. After guys like Stevie J. have dogged them out.

In one respect men and women are the same. They both have puffed up pride and egos. They always wonder about the one that came before them. When they start to think about what got them hooked. They wonder if you were that good to someone else. It's always in the back of their mind."What you won't do for one, you'll do for another". They want to know if they are the one.