Out Of Reach

I don't really think any of these women were originally goldiggers. Not in the way some of them are now. They were with these men before they got rich. Monica Joseph-Taylor and Funkmaster Flex, Tashera Simmons and DMX and Liza Morales and Lamar Odom were all childhood sweethearts.  They got with these guys and even had children before they even started out in their respective fields. All except for Josie Davis. These couples grew up together. Her man practically raised her. She met Floyd Mayweather when she was sixteen. She has made her lifes calling having children for him. She and Liza Morales have both had three children by their longtime boyfriends. But neither one of them unfortunately has gotten a ring.

The only white woman on the show. Cheryl Caruso lost her husband Phil Caruso to prison. But I think she'll be alright though. She hasn't crossed that color line yet. At least not on the show. Look at what happened to Kim Zolchiak. Something about white women who hang with black women, but don''t like black men. Goes a long way with white men. She already knows how to be a hustler's wife. That makes her more exciting to a square.

Prison is where Zakia Baum got Maino from. His come-up was her. Something tells me he is a hustler. Plus he seems to have a way with women. He met a woman who could offer him more than Zakia,. Then he left her. She just gambled and she loss. Shaniqua Tompkins had a child by Fifty Cent before he was famous. She is beginning to envision life after Fifty stops paying child support. Though he never really included her in his new life. Except for Floyd Mayweather, he is by far the biggest celebrity with the most money being highlighted on this show . He shut his baby's mother down before she even taped an episode. I expect Josie Davis to be silenced next.

All these women have one thing in common. Their best years are behind them. Once you have two or three babies by a man. You have given your best to him already. To avoid  the backlash from their children. If their father stays around until they're ten and eleven years old. I know it seems unfair to the mothers. But really they need to wait until their children are grown before they bring another man into the house. Married or not. Contrary to what most people think. Money doesn't always make it right. Look at Shaunie Oneal and her two oldest boys.  Her new man doesn't meet their approval. That's just the beginning though. She and Shaq have three more.  Imagine the child support her and Josie Davis are getting. But look at their personal lives. They will never meet men that give them new identities until it doesn't matter anymore. Juanita Leonard is one in two million. She hit the lottery twice.

When it comes to explotation. I can't believe it's because the executive producers only choose to highlight black relationships. I just think as a general rule white men with money don't avoid their responsibility. It's usually an issue of paternity with them. I have always said "there should be a special place in hell for women who lie about their children's father". Equally as important though. "Black men shouldn't be keeping score with black women". Take care of your responsibilities.  The Bible makes it clear in Proverbs 13:22 "A good man leaveth an inheritance to his children's children: and the wealth of the sinner is laid up for the just".

If a man is simply trying to upgrade to what looks like a five star chick.  It's not his baby's mama's fault. If you've been dating someone for ten years and have three children and he still hasn't married them. She's probably not  the one they want. Once these men become successful. It's unfair to expect these women to leave them. It's like going from a Cadillac to a Kia. Unlike the Hollywood Exes, who are capable of picking up and moving on. What rich rapper or athlete is Tashera Simmons going to meet?  Even Andrea Kelly is having a hard time adjusting. She has bank and booty both. Poor Tashera has neither. These are average women put out of reach of average men.