Get Away

People act like this hookup is bigger than the three point shots hit by Q-Pon during the playoffs. After the national exposure he gained playing against the San Antonio Spurs. He won't have a problem finding female companionship. But she showed initiative. If anything it's just as big a deal for Chandler Lawson as it is him. Much to her credit. She isn't hanging out with 100 other blonds wearing bikinis trying to attract a Ryan Lochtie. No doubt he would love to have that notch on his belt. But why just take a piece of the pie, when you can have the whole thing?  Quincy Poindexter isn't the average guy out here on the prowl. He is a young, educated, millionaire with a future in the NBA.

Somebody must have got hold of Chandler and pulled her coat tail. Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Unless you're already where you aspire to be and independently wealthy. If you go black, you can't go back. Ask Jennifer Lopez how that works. Once you get attached to a black man as a couple. You can forget about getting a Ben Affleck or a Jimmer Fredette.  I was watching Paris Hilton the other day on the "Wendy Williams Show".. Recently she signed a deal with YCMB. And everybody wondered why. She has finally burnt herself out. She has joined the ranks of Madonna and Carmen Electra. That's why she isn't married yet. Her promiscuous past didn't even matter at first. The country was too busy hating her friend Kim. But her relationship with "Fifty Cent" changed all that.

I'm not anti-interracial relationships. But I am pro-black. I want the best for those women who look like me. In this post I'm just pointing out two things that will probably go unsaid. In a city like Memphis with all these single, black females in this city. Why was an NBA player surfing Twiiter for a date? The sisters are to busy chasing guys like JR Smith. They pay more attention to tattoos than character. I call it the Kimmoro Lee and Russell Simmons syndrome. One woman's trash is another woman's treasure. Ten years from now when this guy has  made  $50M. The question will be asked when it's too late by black women. How did he get away?