Too Late

Maxwell doesn't  care whether black  women approve of  who he dates. Remember he came along in the days of  Taye Diggs, Tyrese and Terell Owens. A brother had to look like he just got off the slave ship to get some play. Not including the pretty boys like El Debarge, Christopher Williams and Eric Benet. Ladies were always willing to buck the trends to get with guys like them. But guys like Maxwell, Cuba Gooding and John Legend suffered a drought especially with black women. Had it not been for Terrence Howard and Shemar Moore. Light skinned brothers would have been like a mini truck.

Then President Obama came on the scene. Now all of a sudden the beige brother is popular again. But they've moved on to more solid ground. At one time people were calling Maxwell gay. I don't . member a loud outcry or even a buzz in his defense. Even I wondered at one time what was up with him. His latest response to black women about who he dates. If they pay close attention. Has an underlying message. I have some theories, but I have no proof. But I believe I'm on  to something.

Black women need to learn. "If you stay ready, you don''t have to get  ready". Concentrate on being a good catch instead of trying to catch a man. A man doesn't want a woman more experienced than him. Too many chances for leaks or dents in the armour.  When it comes to figuring out what black women desire. These men no longer care. "At first you didn't want me. Now I'm rich you all up on me".They don't want to look up and hear about their ex with Stevie J or J.R. Smith, or find out they came first. Now that you have long hair and you don't care. Just take your medicine. These men are no longer interested. It's too late.