Overlook
I think that's where she got it confused. You can't go around bragging about how your man paid for you. I don't care how he looks or his age. Any self respecting person wouldn't take kindly to that. Hugh Hefner's young wife never mentions his genorosity. Look at this tall head guy. He is not the best looking man by any stretch of the imagination. I can just imagine he has a huge ego to boot. Remember Eric Williams on BBWLA. That's why on the show he comes across as so controlling. He wants to require the highest standards in everything he can. Because some things he just can't control.
This is only speculation, but I think it has to do with her not having children yet. I don' t think Kordell is gay, but bi-curious if you will. He got caught dipping and will never live it down. The first sign of trouble was the failed pregnancy test. Suddenly they needed marital counseling. I don't think Porsha is as eager as she pretends to have his children. I would love to see his son. She just knows the importance of having an heir. From the looks of things Kordell planned for an easy escape from the beginning. He thought Porsha would make people forget about his past, but she had one of her own. Ironically Kenya gave her the best advice. "They can work it out". They just need to overlook each others past.